In
the spirit of the season, I'd like to share some observations about
well wishes at this time of the year.
I
have an eclectic collection of friends; they observe a variety of
different religions. Years ago when Happy Holidays crept into use, I
asked each person if they are offended or feel uncomfortable in any
way when I wish them a Merry Christmas – all said NO...unless I
would be offended if they wished me Happy Chanukah or Joyous Kwanzaa or other
celebration of the season. In the reverse situation, I am honored
when a friend says they will include me in their prayers for the Day
of Atonement (Yom Kippur).
In my
tribe, Merry Christmas and Happy Chanukah wishes abound throughout
December, with big smiles and good cheer!
This
year I conducted an experiment – in December until the 25th
I wished people a Merry Christmas. It was totally indiscriminate –
friends, strangers, clerks stocking shelves, people helping to find
an item or give directions, letter carriers, the guys on the Trash
Truck, and every kid I saw. I offered Christmas wishes to over 250
individuals during the experiment.
Here's
my report of this non-scientific project – everyone...no
exception...broke out into a smile and most returned the greeting,
with some Happy Chanukah's and Joyous Kwanzaa's
sprinkled in. There was no negative reaction – not the slightest
indication of any discomfort by anyone. Each person beamed at being
acknowledged and offered a positive wish for them.
Ben
Stein says it best in a note he wrote about Christmas
– being wished a Merry Christmas is inclusionary and a positive
expression of celebration, which in no means diminishes or degrades
the beliefs and observations of the listener...not by intent and not
by practice.
Hope
you had a Merry Christmas - here's a wish to you for good health,
peace, joy, and success for the coming New Year.
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